Its sad that you have to keep saying this over and over. I don't get it to the degree you do, which is why is someone asks me about mental health or blog niches. I generally try to help. I have the time to spend with the few people who need my help. I know as much as you would love to help everyone, you can't. It's not realistic.
What I don't respond to are people who demand my time. They want me to hold their hand and explain Medium to them. The only time I do that is with friends and people who have build a relationship with me first.
I love how you set boundaries. The shame is on the people who demand your time, without so much as a hello!
With that said, you know who to come to if you ever need help with a blog (WordPress). All you have to do is say the word.
What are socially distanced friends for!